I always play in the Avery Realm since there's always more people there compared to anywhere else. If you're looking for my pirate, my name is the same in-game on all my pirates as it is here: Bloody Belle.
Two-faced Valkoor Ohlen, lvl 65 Buccaneer I mainly divide my time between Avery and Vadima. Vadima when I looking to quietly catch up on questing or farming and Avery when I am strictly in Lend a Hand mode. If Avery gets too crowded I will switch to Vadima. I also 'visit' many of the other realms to help out others or in hopes that my luck will change in getting certain drops- I know wishful thinking.